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Writing Is My Favorite Sport – I Am Blessed

In November 2025, I wrote about not having a project after publishing two books close together. The first, Dr. Diana’s Toolkit for Better Writing, a book that writer friends had been asking me to write, was published October 29. The second, my first thriller, Harbor House: Deadly Intentions, was published on November 18.

I’d spent the last half of 2024 and much of 2025 working on those two books, in addition to my usual quarterly blog contributions to Writers in the Storm and a bit of teaching.

Soon after I wrote that November blog about having no project in sight, I had to laugh. Looking through various projects that were queued, some waiting for 30 years, it was ridiculous for me to think I didn’t have something to work on.

What bubbled to the top was a class I’d taught in 2024 about how to avoid and use procrastination, but I’ve always been keen on writing about time management, another class I’d taught in the past.

Suddenly, I thought, why not combine them into one book? They are related, after all. Two sides of the same coin.

So, gathering all my class materials, blogs, and research material, I organized, drafted, tore it apart because it wasn’t working, reorganized, wrote, revised, read it a dozen times, and cut it down to the bare bones without a lot of fluff. It was published February 25.

Looking back, I realized I’d published 3 books in 4 months. Wow. Did I do that? Apparently so, but it feels so unreal!

I saw a shirt on another writer today that said, “Reading is My Favorite Sport.” Once upon a time, I could say that was my favorite, too. Not anymore. Writing is.

I love to write. The juxtaposition of words. Writing a word I’ve never heard of. Stopping to look it up. Amazed that it’s the perfect word and wondering where it came from.

Talking to a producer recently, I said that I love to write.

“Ya know,” he said, “that’s probably the first time I’ve ever heard a writer say that.” I was surprised—just as much as he was, he admitted.

Our discussion became about how writers enjoy the finished project but hate so many parts of it. The first drafts, the rewriting, the editing, the revising, the polishing, and the dreaded promoting that must follow.

Nope, I love it all. Well, maybe not the promoting as much, but I’m finding ways to like it. Mostly because I’m not following the so-called rules.

In the beginning, I dreaded writing the first draft. Now, I love it because I found a way to write first drafts FAST—as in 10 days for a book. I wrote about it some in my CPE: Characters, Plot, & Emotion book.

I learned to enjoy editing. It helps when I distance myself from owning the words and examine them as if I were an editor, looking over someone else’s work.

I enjoy grammar because I taught it and grinned every time I saw students grasping a concept, understanding the why behind the need for that comma. Or, when a fellow writer is excited because they remember the trick I taught them about using who versus that.

As I journey, navigate, and negotiate my way through the winter of my life, I look back and feel blessed.

Blessed that my mother saw my voracious reading and encouraged me toward certain books and movies.

Blessed that both my mother and stepfather loved movies as much as I, where we could talk for hours about the classics, and where my stepfather would imitate Jimmy Stewart perfectly.

Blessed to have students who loved my classes, telling those who feared taking one that “yeah, she’s tough, but she’s fair, and you’ll learn a lot,” and who would follow me from class to class. Even where one student who proudly boasted to me just before one class was to start, and how he had avoided my classes. I told him I knew why he had. He changed the subject, but again, I knew why; and then, midway through the class, he apologized to the class for not taking their advice, finishing with, “I wish now that I had taken her classes.

Blessed that others acknowledged my expertise in grammar and writing, where I became the go-to for teachers and students from other campuses, too.

Blessed that I.T. acknowledged my computer expertise and allowed me to fix, install, or move equipment without having to send someone out. “But don’t tell anyone,” they’d say.

Blessed that my inquisitive nature enabled me to find two million dollars being charged incorrectly to the department that I worked in as a contracted temp, where the supervisors said that I knew more about the computer program we all worked from than their full-time employees did.

Blessed that my curiosity of knowing the truth has led me to fun researching hours.

Blessed that in the latter half of my life, I got to meld my love of teaching and writing into a job that never felt like work…well, until I had to attend a campus or department meeting or attend team building meetings, taking us away from projects with tight deadlines.

Blessed in recognizing that there are far better writers than I, and thankful that it’s a multifaceted sport with readers of various interests.

Blessed that I have fellow writers who love meeting up online for write-ins! You are my tribe!

Blessed for the many friends I’ve had throughout my journeys—some of whom were best friends and taught me valuable lessons.

Blessed for the family and friends who have supported me and loved me for who I am and never will be.

Blessed for the rabid fans that I have and for those I will have in the future.

Blessed that I had a wonderful (!) dissertation chair who taught me so much in just a few words. We had just finished talking about my dissertation topic when he said, “Don’t go for perfect. Go for getting it done.” Thank you, Jonathan! That advice still serves me well.

It’s how, I realize now, I was able to publish three books in four months and how, for this year, I’m able to line up reworking a favorite script, turn a half-written mystery into a thriller, and plot out and write a historical based on a true event.

These three projects have much in common. They’ve all been waiting for some 30-plus years.

Your Purpose as a Writer

Think back to your early days as a writer.

If your early days were as a child, your answer will be different from that of an adult. So, if you started as a child, consider your answer when you first began writing, and then consider a second answer of why you wanted to continue writing as an adult.

I can’t say I had a set-the-world-on-fire purpose or even one that served others as I began writing when I was 19, and then would pursue the craft more enthusiastically at 25.

My first intent was to make money.

My second intent was to get my name in print.

Once I started writing romances, my intent was to become rich and famous like so many other romance writers. I thought of romances as the easiest of genres to write being such a fan, reading one a day. In truth, I’ve discovered of all the writing I’ve done in multiple genres, the romance genre is the hardest of them all.

As I wrote those novels—that received rejections—I was writing inspirational and how-to magazines articles that were selling. I found satisfaction in helping others. The more acceptances I received, which included a weekly newspaper column and then a magazine column, I realized I could help other writers.

My third intent became to help other writers.

With that intent and with the traditional publication of three romances, I got to help other writers by teaching writing craft classes both online and in-seat at a local community college. I started writing screenplays, finding a great love for that genre.

Then, a life-changing event had me reconsidering my writing, which up until that time had been part-time, coming secondary after every day job I’d ever worked and every other responsibility of family and home.

What if I could change that scenario and make my day job part of my purpose? To help other writers?

That’s exactly what I did. After going back to school as a non-traditional (meaning older) student, I became an English Professor, the dream of all dreams. I had managed to combine my purposes. I was teaching the craft of writing by day and writing by night.

And, that scenario continues today as a full-time writer having published the first of my how-to series of books, Finding Your Fire & Keeping It Hot, which is also the basis for the class I’m teaching August 1-12, 2022, Bringing Abundance Into Your Life.

Did you notice how my purpose changed over the years? How long it took me to find my true purpose?

Not everyone struggles the same way I did. I know some writers who found their purpose and their writing niche quickly.

I know one writer who found her genre niche but needed to rebrand herself to find her audience and market.

I know another highly successful romance writer who is changing subgenres, staying in romance but moving from contemporary to historical.

I know several successful romance writers who moved to paranormal, mysteries, or suspense, leaving romance behind altogether.

While I believe a lot of writers start writing with the idea of making lots of money, and starting with a popular genre—after all romances are half of all paperbacks sold—I believe, too, that they find their heartfelt purpose is to entertain. Well, and to earn a living from their writing.

How about you?

What is your purpose for writing?

To entertain? To become a best-selling author? To write a memoir so that you can leave a legacy for your family? To become famous? To win awards?

By the way, I have a new added purpose: To win an Oscar for Original Screenplay and to purchase a huge house that I can staff and run as a Writing Retreat Center where I can continue to help writers in another way.

Dream big or go home, right?

Pluviophile Productivity: Writing in the rain

The Insecure Writer’s Support Group

December 2 question – Are there months or times of the year that you are more productive with your writing than other months, and why?

Pluviophile Productivity: Writing in the rain

I’m an avid, solid pluviophile. Someone who loves rain.

My best months of productivity occur on rainy days. Thunderous rains. Heavy downpours. And best of all, light misty rains.

For nearly ten years, I lived in the Deep South and loved sitting on my porch swing, enjoying the summer rains, writing with pen and paper.

Back in the Michigan, in spring, summer, and fall, I love to open the windows and door, listening to the rain while sitting at my computer.

Likewise, snowy days are excellent days of good productivity. Pure imagery magick occurs as big snow-globe like snowflakes—another form of rain—fall as I write.

There’s something about being hunkered down, whether snow or rain, not being drawn to the outdoors and engaging in another activity. My creativity thrives viewing earth’s thirst-quenching weather quieting the world and hearing the clatter of the keys.

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Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer – aim for a dozen new people each time – and return comments. This group is all about connecting!

Creating a Cover

For the past month, I’ve been involved with designing two books covers, or rather, I’ve had two different cover designers creating them for me.  In both instances, I had an original vision, but in one instance, I had created an earlier cover myself and tried to go forward with that design.  Thus, that’s the journey I report here.

Once upon a time, I published a book that I titled Fuss and Feathers.  I loved that title.  She was the fuss and he was the feathers, but the editor didn’t.  As a result, Fuss and Feathers became

The Man on the Romance Cover 2The Man on the Romance Cover, and it became the first book to launch the new line of Moonlight Romance by the Starlog Group, creating a romance book in a magazine format.

Personally, I hated the title.  I hated the cover, too.  As the author, I had no artistic control over either.

While the characters matched the faces I envision—after all I had sent magazine ad tear sheets of what I imagined these characters to look like—I didn’t imagine them in this state of undress . . . especially her.

That was the era of bodice rippers.

Then, I got my rights back but was busy with school—writing papers for classes, teaching, and fulfilling my role as administrator—so, the book got shelved for the time being.

Then self-publishing became easier to do.  I thought, why not?  The story was still good.  I’d have to change the cover, due to not owning its copyright, and I wanted to change the title, anyway, along with my name and getting rid of the previous marriage pseudonym.

So, the new book with a new cover became

DH Diana's front coverDetermined Hearts.

At the time, I liked the cover.  I spent time learning new software and probably should have spent more time with the software.  I published it on Smashwords hoping for the best.  Unfortunately, there were no sales.  Nothing.  Of course, I wasn’t promoting it, and now that I think back on it, I can say my not liking the cover probably influenced my lack of promotion.  Consequently, I unpublished it.

Which brings us to February 2016.

I was ready to do the book justice.  The story was still good after I re-read it, at least in my opinion, though it did need updating and having errors that six other editors didn’t catch, fixed.

I contacted a designer, telling her that I wanted to put my hero in the background and possibly add a camera, placing it on the rock.  After all, the chipmunk, camera, and eagle were featured in the book, so why not?

We ended up with this:  Determined Hearts - Cover Final High Resolution

While said I was okay with the image as it had been my vision and we’d gone to a LOT of trouble finding the right body and matching it with a different head (the wonders of artistic manipulation!), there was something not right with the picture.  And, I couldn’t determine what that something was.

I knew the eagle wasn’t right, nor the camera, despite how many times we tweaked it and how much I wanted them there.  Even the bright light in the background bothered but I couldn’t say why.

And then, I saw the entire flat – the back and front cover combined, with the designer having chosen the back cover landscape. (But yeah, overall, it doesn’t look good, does it?)

Determined Hearts Full Cover - Flat with old ebook cover

Immediately, I knew what was wrong.

The back didn’t match the front and I loved, loved, LOVED the back cover landscape.  The front cover landscape was okay, but I loved the other more.

And then, she showed me the entire flatWooded Scene

and I was enamored.  This was my cover!  By now, we were both giddy about the future composition.

I wanted him placed on the front cover still, but up in the trees, reducing him in size.  We decided to place the chipmunk on the log.

Determined Hearts - Prototype Cover 2 (5)

The result:   A man who looks like he wants to ax murder a chipmunk!!!

(Are you laughing yet?)

I still laugh every time I look at this picture.  In all honesty, I can’t blame the designer.  She was following my wishes, my design.  Actually, she must have been cringing all along the way, wishing I wasn’t so stuck on my choices.

The landscape still looked good, but my hero had to go.  He was starting to look too angry, with an ax to grind.  (Groan.)

I needed a different hero.  In fact, I decided that the cover needed a couple.  The designer liked that idea.

I sent her a picture that I absolutely loved, asking if it was possible to use them on the cover even though they didn’t have legs showing and the fact that her hair was auburn rather than the blonde tresses that my original heroine was born with.

The designer sent me this. Determined Hearts - 1600 Cover eBook Final

Immediately, I knew this was my cover.

It was far easier for me to change the color of her hair within the pages then it would be for us to try tweaking the image.

And so, the cover was finished.

What a journey.  Probably close to 100 e-mail exchanges over several weeks, but we finally arrived a final product.

Behind the scenes, for any author who is self-publishing and working with a cover designer, there are a lot of decisions that go into creating a cover.  And, it’s always a collaboration—not always an easy one, but one that is totally worthwhile when the results are this fabulous.

Oh, and now we’re into the era of embraces and washboard chests.  I’m okay with that.

Update:  Determined Hearts is available for sale.